We can think that unless we’re on top of our game every single second of every single day that the social media algorithms will kick in and we’ll sink to the bottom of the scrap heap. Never to be seen again.
We have to keep up with everything. Social media presence. Emailing our list. Coming up with new classes, courses, products… new ways to find or attract our perfect clients.
I feel exhausted just thinking about it all, and honestly, I feel that it can get a bit like trying to keep up with the Joneses all the time.
You try to buy yourself some extra time and keep moving the date at which you’ll make this change.
Or you hope things will just get better all on their own, or that the other person in the relationship will make the decision and save you from having to say anything… until suddenly 2, or 5, or even 10 years have passed and you’re still stuck.
You haven’t followed your heart. You’re not living in joy. You’re just treading water waiting for something to happen to make it all better. But usually it’s just getting worse.
We’ve all been programmed to be a certain way.
We think that it’s “just the way we are”, but really, the way we are, the way we behave, think, act and feel is a reaction to past events and past programming.
When you introduce a small child to new people and preface that introduction with something like “she’s very shy, she doesn’t talk much” – you are subtly programming that child to become the way you say she is.
Just last week, I said that your thoughts create your reality – and they do…. but this week I’m going to go a step further and say that in order to manifest the reality that you really want, you actually have to do something about it.
When we focus just outside of ourselves we can tend to forget about the power that is within us – our own magnificence, in a sense – and actually some people don’t even know that this part of them even exists… they don’t teach us this in schools. But actually if they did, we would see a very different world today.
Do I still occasionally get a “download” for someone? Yes, but that’s a different thing altogether than me going snooping and looking for something just because I feel like it or because I can.
Why am I telling you this and what has it got to do with Money Mindset or Abundance, I hear you ask? It has everything to do with money. Read on....
Are you struggling to grow your business?
Do you nervously watch your finances dwindling with nothing coming in to replace what you’re spending?
Despite your best efforts, does it appear that you simply can’t earn beyond a set $ amount each month?
You’re not alone.
This is much more common than you might think. But out in public nobody wants to talk about it. It’s a hush hush kind of thing…
Have you ever said to yourself something like:
I feel stuck, but I don’t know why;
There’s something blocking me from moving ahead but I don’t know what it is; or
If I knew why I’m stuck then I could just fix it, but I just don't know.
Really…..? I thought… that’s all you got for me?!
My eyes were nearly popping out of my head because I’d just witnessed something pretty amazing and I was kind of expecting more from her - like a magical formula or something. Let me explain…
We all have a different interpretation of what the word "broke" means.
One person can be broke with 50 cents in their purse, whilst for another person, broke means that they’re down to their last 4 million.
Let me tell you about my client James, who came to me for help when he was broke.